Grown up Clothes

By very nature of the field I work in, as well as thanks to having lost a significant amount of weight recently, I am running into a sincere problem; I don’t have any grown up clothes. Clothes to be casually cute for brunch on weekends? I am all over that. Club clothes just classy enough … Continue reading Grown up Clothes

Accepted Everywhere You Wanna Be

(Day 6 of 30 in 30)“Hey, beautiful girl.”“Hey.”“Uh oh. What’s wrong?”“I didn’t get it.”“Wait- are you serious?!”“Yep.”“I can’t believe this shit.”“Me neither.”“I’m so sorry, baby.”“Me too.”“Damn. I wish I could at least give you a hug or something.”We both sigh on opposite ends on the country. But for different reasons.“Are you walking outta work?”“Yeah. On my … Continue reading Accepted Everywhere You Wanna Be


(Day 4 of 30 in 30)I am at the point where I don’t want advice. Or, rather I should specify, I don’t want clichéd advice. I am uninterested in “time heals all wounds” or “just have faith” or “it wasn’t meant to be.” Mostly, because it is all bullshit.But even more so because there is … Continue reading Vent

Doing it Well

(Day 3 of 30 in 30)I know it’s not popular, and I’m not supposed to say it. ‘Cuz I’m a woman. ‘Cuz it’s shallow. And… some other reasons y’all have that I don’t entirely understand.But in all the lofty, lovely qualities everyone lists that they desire in a partner, why does nobody ever mention they want … Continue reading Doing it Well