Reflection

As I have found myself moving solidly into grown womanhood, I have been doing quite a bit of self reflection lately. It's actually been pretty good for me. I have been able to settle and rectify alot of things in my mind, put alot of old issues to rest, and make some really good ground … Continue reading Reflection

Gravity

I avoid it like the plague. It is my way. Our way, really.And yet somehow, some way, like gravity, we get pulled together. Objectively I can say that this universal pull is weighted evenly between the both of us. We are intertwined explicitly, probably forever.Poetic shit like that.Except our shit is less Love Jones and … Continue reading Gravity

ATL Recap 2

Shani, you're an asshole, lol.This is a continuation of thisI've always thanked God for having more male friends than chicks because shit like this that First Love just tried to pull just doesn't fool me.At this point I weigh my options...So when I get to First Love's place (lol!), he opens his door for me, … Continue reading ATL Recap 2

ATL Recap #1

I promise not to lose my will to write this halfway through.Well, I'ma try real hard, lol.Thursday PMI work a half day at work and towards the end of it, I get a phone call from my mama. I'm superbusy and about to walk out the door in 15 minutes to go meet her, pick … Continue reading ATL Recap #1

Sideline Hoe

I think I always knew there was someone else.Over the years, there were always whispers, hardly ever screams, never full out roars of there being someone else. But I think I always knew.At the time I was young and in love, misguided by the thought that if I was #1 all the extracurriculars didn't matter. … Continue reading Sideline Hoe

The Stupid Girl’s Guide to Getting Over an Ex: an Easy 4 Year, 173 Step Process Part 2

Because of my infinite expertise on the subject, I have decided to compile a sort of step by step guide of the best and most successful way to get over an ex in a positive and not at all unhealthy way. Ahem. Here you have it...1. Break up with ex because you feel that he … Continue reading The Stupid Girl’s Guide to Getting Over an Ex: an Easy 4 Year, 173 Step Process Part 2

The Stupid Girl’s Guide to Getting Over an Ex: An Easy 4 Year, 173 Step Process PART 1

My friend Olu posted this poem about me on his blog called "The Moral of the Story is..." . It's acutely painful. Why? Because it's entirely accurate. Alot of facts with a little bit of fiction thrown in. I'll let you decide which is which. But for anyone who has ever asked me all my … Continue reading The Stupid Girl’s Guide to Getting Over an Ex: An Easy 4 Year, 173 Step Process PART 1